I self-flagellated for years over so many of my choices. I mean, what was it that led the men I trusted to abandon or betray me? There was only one common variable between them … me. But writing about that life gave me the opportunity to re-write it, to turn it into something worth living. And I’d like to think I’m the better for having done it.
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